Help for Relationships

God has a great plan for families, but it takes intentionality, discipline, and frankly a lot of hard work. If you’re ready to experience God’s best for you and your family, these resources can help you get there.

Our recommendation is to choose one place to start. Most of us could probably work on almost all of these at once but that would be overwhelming. Pray about the best place to start and go for it. If you have questions or need support along the way, please feel free to contact one of the pastors on staff. We’re here for you.  


Conflict Resolution:

Book: Resolving Everyday Conflict by Ken Sande and Kevin Johnson


Book: I Don’t Wait Anymore by Grace Thornton

Blog:,  Grace Thonton


Book: The Love Dare by Stephen and Alex Kendrick, A 40-day devotional guide that dares you to show love to your spouse each day. 

Website:,  Marriage Assessment to see the strengths and growth areas of your marriage

Blog:, Marriage blog with resources about relationships, sex, money, and more. 

Book: His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage by Willard F. Harley, Jr. 


Website:, Parenting blog that aligns with the curriculum used in BP Kids every Sunday. This blog provides helpful resources, ideas, and challenges for busy parents to make the most of their time with their kids.

Book: Give Them Grace: Dazzling Your Kids with the Love of Jesus by Elyse Fitzpatrick and Jessica Thompson

Book: Parenting Beyond Your Capacity by Reggie Joyner and Carey Nieuwhof

Book: Family iD-Intentional Direction by Greg Gunn and Craig Groeschel

Healthy Relationships:

Books: The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman, books for couples, children and singles

Website:, online survey to help you discover the love language for you and others around you. 

Book: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter  Scazzero